hard limits — no negotiation
- stickers
- scat
- waste disposal
- sleep play / unconscious play
- pet play that is not consensual
- public exposure without explicit prior agreement
soft limits — maybe, ask me with prior consent
- breath play with my full consent and clear safeword
- public play in controlled environments I've approved
- needles / blood play if I've tested it before
- electroshock with a trained partner
- public humiliation if I trust the person completely
- age regression play outside of ABDL
- collaring in public without prior discussion
- leash walking in public spaces
- being tied up and left alone in a new location
- roleplay involving authority figures I don't know
- medical play beyond basic first aid themes
- forced self-reporting of acts
- sleeping while tied up
- forced sterilization themes
if you're unsure about something, just ask. i'd rather over-communicate than under-communicate. consent is sexy.